A Humorous Take on a Painful Past
A Fan's Request and Antonoff's Witty Reply
During a September 15 performance at The Troubadour in Los Angeles, a fan's innocent request to hear his 2017 track, "Let's Get Married," prompted Antonoff's unexpected and humorous response. He playfully but firmly stated, "absolutely not," before adding with a laugh, "Read the news, brother." He then clarified that he still loves the song, which he penned over a decade ago.
The "Let's Get Married" Backstory and Lena Dunham
Antonoff's remarks about the song are particularly notable given its origin. He reportedly wrote "Let's Get Married" during his relationship with his ex-girlfriend, Lena Dunham, whom he dated from 2012 to 2017. Dunham recently announced the birth of her daughter via surrogate, adding another layer to the timeline of Antonoff's past relationships.
The Split from Margaret Qualley: A Timeline
The separation between Antonoff and Qualley, who have an 11-year age difference, became public in July, just a month before their third wedding anniversary. Their last public appearance together was at the Grammy Awards on February 1. Reports from TMZ and Page Six confirmed the split, with Qualley's representative asserting that there were "no infidelity" or "trust issues" that led to the end of their "rocky" marriage. Sources also indicated that reconciliation was not on the cards, though they remain respectful towards each other.
Whispers and Social Media Clues
Speculation about their relationship began circulating when Antonoff attended Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce's July 3 wedding festivities with his sister, Rachel, instead of Qualley. Further evidence emerged on April 28, when Qualley reverted her Instagram handle to her legal name, Sarah Margaret Qualley, and removed wedding photos she had previously shared in March. This shift in her online presence subtly hinted at the changes in her marital status.
An Awkward Interview and Taylor Swift's Influence
Prior to the official announcement of their separation, Qualley had an awkward exchange on the "Today" show. When asked about her husband potentially producing one of Taylor Swift's albums, she feigned ignorance, stating, "I don't know anything," and then an uncomfortable laugh. This interview highlighted the public's perception of Antonoff's close professional relationship with Swift, for whom he has been a primary co-songwriter and producer on several albums, including "Midnights" and "The Tortured Poets Department." The latter, however, was produced by Max Martin and Shellback.
Wedding Day Drama and Past Romances
The couple's wedding rehearsal dinner in 2023 famously attracted a crowd of Taylor Swift fans. Their wedding, held at Parker's Garage in Long Beach Island, New Jersey, was attended by a host of celebrities, including Swift herself, Cara Delevingne, and Lana Del Rey. Qualley, the daughter of actress Andie MacDowell, looked elegant in a white, halter-styled gown. Antonoff and Qualley were first linked in August 2021 and made their relationship public at the Critics' Choice Awards in March 2022. Antonoff's past relationships include photographer Carlotta Kohl and actress Scarlett Johansson, while Qualley has been linked to Nat Wolff, Pete Davidson, and Shia LaBeouf.
Qualley's Upcoming Projects
Professionally, Margaret Qualley continues to thrive. She can be seen as medic Cima in Ridley Scott's $110 million-budget sci-fi film "The Dog Stars," alongside Jacob Elordi, Josh Brolin, and Allison Janney. Her upcoming projects also include the romantic drama "Love of Your Life" and the Southern supernatural horror film "King Snake.
