Reverend Richard Coles, a former contestant on Strictly, has shared details about how his current partner has helped him rediscover joy following the tragic passing of his husband, David. Coles, now 64, lost David Oldham, also a priest, in 2019 at the age of 43 due to alcohol-related liver disease. He revealed that his partner, Richard 'Dickie' Cant, 62, has shown remarkable empathy for his ongoing grief, which has become a cornerstone of their four-year relationship, initiated after they connected through a dating application.
Coles expressed his profound appreciation for Cant's respectful approach to his loss. He highlighted that Cant acknowledges and honors the enduring presence of his late husband in his heart, recognizing that this profound sorrow is an intrinsic part of Coles's identity, yet it does not define their current relationship. This understanding, Coles believes, is a testament to Cant's compassionate and considerate nature, allowing him to embrace a fulfilling life once more.
Despite finding happiness with Cant, the memory of David remains a significant part of Coles's life. He candidly reflected on the struggles they faced due to David's alcoholism and expressed regret for past frustrations. Coles emphasizes that while the pain of loss endures, he is now able to build a new future. The couple, residing in East Sussex, are making plans to expand their family with a pet, though they are still deciding on the specific breed of dog. Cant, an actor known for roles in 'The Crown' and 'It's A Sin,' brings a grounded perspective to their life, which Coles attributes to his upbringing with a well-known father in children's television.
Richard Coles's journey exemplifies resilience and the human capacity to find light after darkness. His story serves as an inspiring testament to the power of love, understanding, and the courage to embrace new beginnings while cherishing the memories of those who have passed. It reminds us that grief is a process, not a destination, and that new relationships can offer profound healing and renewed purpose.
