Sophia Bush, the renowned actress and now published author, recently unveiled a deeply personal chapter of her life in her memoir, “And I Will Tell You Mine: Notes from a Life in Progress.” Among its many revelations, the most heartwarming is the announcement of her marriage to Ashlyn Harris, her partner of three years and a former professional soccer player. Their union took place in a private ceremony held in upstate New York in the summer of 2025, a joyous occasion shared with Harris’s children, Sloane and Ocean, to whom Bush is a devoted stepmother.
The couple intentionally opted for a small, intimate gathering, a choice that perfectly mirrored their desire for authenticity away from the public eye. Bush articulated this sentiment during a joint Zoom interview with Harris, explaining, “At this stage, you start distinguishing what is genuinely yours from what has always been for others.” She acknowledged the inherent costs of their public careers, as both have experienced performing for vast audiences since their youth. Harris echoed this, cherishing the relaxed atmosphere that allowed their children to simply be happy, running freely and even gathering flowers. The evening culminated in a cozy family marshmallow roast, a memory Bush describes as profoundly precious and free from the usual pressures of wedding days.
To share their news more personally, the newlyweds embarked on a journey across the country, visiting friends and family. Bush explained their decision to publicize their marriage stemmed from a desire to openly acknowledge their relationship. Harris emphasized the importance of their visibility as a married couple, particularly for LGBTQ+ youth who may feel unseen. Both women are long-standing advocates in LGBTQ+ spaces, actively serving on the board of the Human Rights Campaign, reinforcing their commitment to creating a more inclusive world.
Bush's memoir offers an exclusive glimpse into their wedding day, portraying it as a moment of quiet choice and sacred intimacy. Reflecting on her previous experiences with public scrutiny, she found solace in making this union uniquely theirs. Harris’s family history, particularly the enduring love story of her grandparents, served as a guiding light, shaping her understanding of commitment and home. Bush beautifully describes witnessing Harris's journey of self-discovery, realizing her inherent worth beyond her achievements, and ultimately finding a love that is unconditional. The decision to marry, a deeply felt conviction, led them to a spontaneous trip to city hall. Their friend Nia, ordained for the occasion, facilitated a simple yet profound ceremony. Bush, finding a black velvet dress with gold flecks reminiscent of a starry night, felt a powerful connection to the moment and her new wife, who grew up near the Kennedy Space Center. Their handwritten vows, tucked into a Mary Oliver book, captured their impatience to officially begin their life together. The resulting photographs, filled with pure joy and bathed in natural light, serve as a constant reminder of their perfect day. Bush now looks at their wedding photo, feeling a profound sense of being in the right place, having found her way home to herself and her beloved wife, embarking on a truly authentic chapter of her life.
